Lighthouse Conversations.
Being a Beacon for Teens
By Jennifer Ollis Blomqvist
Conversations that Guide Teens
Lighthouse Conversations: Being a Beacon for Teens provides adults with the theory, practical examples, and tools to guide teens through challenges using constructive and positive conversation.
Conversational tips are provided to:
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convey empathy
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support self-determination and autonomy
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increase a teen’s motivation for change
Whether you are a family member, teacher, counsellor, coach, or an ally to a teen in your life, this book will increase your confidence to:
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Support teenagers
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Improve your relationships by communicating effectively
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Prevent problems from becoming harmful


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A 3-step framework, called Explore - Offer – Explore, to communicate more successfully with a teen.
Learn how listening to and exploring a teen’s perspective, respectfully delivering your message, so the teen internalizes it, and exploring how your message was perceived by the teen can transform your relationship.
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Real stories and sample conversations to apply Motivational Interviewing (MI) in your daily interactions with teens.
Learn to develop collaborative partnerships, communicate acceptance, and focus on strengths.
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Over 25 easy-to-use practical exercises, three quizzes, and 20 reflection questions.
Explore, understand, and directly apply MI into your everyday conversations with teens, including self-care tips to be able to communicate effectively with a teen.
Evidence-Based Methods​
This book leverages Motivational Interviewing (MI) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help teens showing signs of serious trouble, including suicidal behaviour, criminal activity, substance abuse, alcoholism/drinking problems, or school attendance issues.
​This book provides self-paced individual learning to support long-lasting positive change for teenagers and beyond (ages 12 to 21). As a resource for using MI to promote well-being for educators, families and social workers, this book provides a one-of-a-kind opportunity to invest in a teen's future using responsive, affordable, and prevention-focused practices.